Getting engaged and married is such an exciting time! One of the first things I started thinking about after getting engaged was how I would wear my engagement ring and wedding band. It might sound silly, but I wanted to make sure I was doing things "right." But then I realized, who makes the rules anyway?
I’ll admit, I initially felt a lot of pressure to have my wedding band perfectly match my engagement ring. I saw so many pictures online of perfectly coordinated sets, and I thought that was the only way to go. I even started stressing about whether the metals would clash, or if the styles would look odd together. It felt like there were so many unspoken rules!
Then, I started talking to friends and family, and I realized everyone had different opinions and experiences. Some swore by matching sets, while others mixed and matched to their heart's content. That's when I started to question those "rules" myself. After all, isn't the point of jewelry to express yourself and your personal style?
I decided to experiment and find what made me happy. Here's what I discovered:
The first thing I tried was wearing my engagement ring by itself. I actually really loved the simplicity of it! It felt less fussy and more comfortable, especially on days when I was doing a lot of work with my hands. A friend of mine actually wears her engagement ring on her right hand because she prefers it that way. It looks beautiful, and it's a great reminder that there are no hard and fast rules. In fact, I saw someone suggest wearing the ring on the tip of your nose if it makes you happy! It's your hand, your jewelry, and your choice.
I also considered mixing metals. My engagement ring is platinum, but I've always loved rose gold. I thought about getting a band that incorporated both metals to tie the two together. I even considered getting an additive ring that had both platinum and rose gold to kind of blend the two! This would allow me to wear both rings on the same hand without feeling like they clashed.
I know several women who only wear their wedding band. Some do it because their jobs are rough on jewelry, others because of comfort, and some because of the heat in the summer. It's a practical and stylish choice, and it really emphasizes the commitment of marriage.
I even learned about a tradition in Germany where people wear their engagement ring on their left hand and their wedding ring on their right hand. The reasoning is that you shake right hands to make an agreement, and getting married is a lifelong agreement. I thought that was a really lovely sentiment, and something I considered trying myself.
Speaking of expressing myself, I've been looking for a necklace that really captures my style. I stumbled upon the SumsFashion Mens Chains collection, and while I didn't find a chain, I found other pieces that I loved. I was looking for something a little different, and I think I found it! For example, I've been eyeing this Huitan Fancy Celtic Knot Pendant Necklace. It's so unique and beautiful!
I've always been drawn to Celtic knots, and this pendant is the perfect blend of classic and modern. I think it would look great with both casual and dressy outfits. I'm considering getting it to wear for special occasions, or even just to add a little something extra to my everyday look. It's a great way to show your personality and interests through your jewelry. I've had good experiences with SumsFashion Mens Chains in the past, so I'm confident in the quality of their pieces.
Here are some practical tips I've learned along the way: